Brandon and Jennifer: Confession

Confession

Why am I naturally a better friend to others than I am a wife to my husband? Seriously! I'm less harsh and more loving during hard times to my friends than I am to my husband. It shouldn't be that way. With my friends its easy to be understanding, willing to listen, patient and forgiving. Maybe I had high expectations that if I was married in the temple I would have the perfect marriage. Haha... not so! We have to work at it like everyone else. The past few weeks I've learned that if I work on our "friendship" rather than our "marriage"... the marriage will eventually fix itself.
Brandon and I have learned this on a much deeper level lately, and wow, am I grateful! In our bedroom it says on our wall, "Happiness is being married to your best friend"...OK, now I truly get what that means. We have both fallen much deeper in love since we've grasped this concept.

I feel happiness... I feel at peace.

My Favorite Ensign Quotes

"I have found that implementing these five patterns-going to a private place to pray, kneeling, praying vocally, expressing gratitude, and praying for others-has helped me to pause and ponder on what I say in my prayers and has made the experience more meaningful. The Book of Mormon teaches other patterns of prayer as well, including being consistent and giving sufficient time to prayer and meditation. The Savior's prayers in the Book of Mormon include all of these five patterns."

-Patterns of Prayer in the Book of Mormon, October Ensign 2012

My thoughts: I want to make my own prayers more meaningful lately. As I read these patterns I could see what my prayers lacked. When I was pregnant it was very uncomfortable to kneel and pray, so I got in the habit of not kneeling. As President Thomas S. Monson stated, "Kneel to pray." I will follow his counsel and kneel to pray. I know praying vocally will help also.

"First on your "to do" list, put the word prayer. Most of the time, your prayers will be silent. You can think a prayer. You can always have a direct line of communication with your Father in Heaven. Do not allow the adversary to convince you that no one is listening on the other end. Your prayers are always heard. You are never alone!"

-How to Survive in Enemy Territory, October Ensign 2012

My thoughts: Half way through my day, I often realize that I haven't said a prayer yet. I'm so busy with kids and household chores that its hard to find quiet alone time to pause and kneel for a prayer. For some reason I've thought that that's what I must do for my prayers to be heard. I loved reading this quote by President Packer to set me straight! I can think a prayer and they will always be heard.